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In time you’ll become high-value, but if you’re trying to lose weight it helps to avoid going to wing night with your buddies who don’t really care about your goal and just want you to be “the fun guy who we have fun with at wing night”, you know?
“Mainly I’m doing warm approaches — I’ve done a few cold approaches, but those are hard on my psyche.”
lol all good. Like I say, we’re just diagnosing here. Because you have the height limiting-beliefs to overcome on top of just getting good with girls, and because you actually have ACCESS to social circles that go out and parties and shit, go ahead and stick to warm approaches for a while. For me, I had moved to a new city where I didn’t know anyone, so warm approaches weren’t even possible when I started out…literally my only option was going out solo and cold approaching. I actually enjoy that, but it’s a huge challenge and rough on the psyche like you say, and I’ve got enough experience now that I know how to keep it from de-motivating me. Right now we want you transitioning into this smoothly so don’t feel like you’re not doing “real” game by doing warm sets etc. Down the road you’ll start going out with friends and have some warm sets going and just feel in a good state and naturally approach some randoms here and there. No rush. :)
“Hm. The people I have to chase around are probably objectively higher value. But I dunno, I’d rather hang on to the bottom rung of the cool kids group than be King of the Losers.”
Right, no, this isn’t a bad mentality or anything…girls judge you by your friends, especially at a bar where it’s like “that guy’s hot, but my friend would have to fuck his weirdo loser buddy and that’s so not going to happen” when you approach and they can just blow you off.
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When A Relationship is Almost Right But Not Quite
The In and Out Man: Why Your Ex Man Keeps Coming Back
The Benefits of Settling Down With A Reformed Playboy
Is Marriage Really Hard? Married Folks Speak Out
How to Show Him You’ve Changed & Deserve a Second Chance
5 Moments That Shape a Woman’s Love Life
In time you’ll become high-value, but if you’re trying to lose weight it helps to avoid going to wing night with your buddies who don’t really care about your goal and just want you to be “the fun guy who we have fun with at wing night”, you know?
“Mainly I’m doing warm approaches — I’ve done a few cold approaches, but those are hard on my psyche.”
lol all good. Like I say, we’re just diagnosing here. Because you have the height limiting-beliefs to overcome on top of just getting good with girls, and because you actually have ACCESS to social circles that go out and parties and shit, go ahead and stick to warm approaches for a while. For me, I had moved to a new city where I didn’t know anyone, so warm approaches weren’t even possible when I started out…literally my only option was going out solo and cold approaching. I actually enjoy that, but it’s a huge challenge and rough on the psyche like you say, and I’ve got enough experience now that I know how to keep it from de-motivating me. Right now we want you transitioning into this smoothly so don’t feel like you’re not doing “real” game by doing warm sets etc. Down the road you’ll start going out with friends and have some warm sets going and just feel in a good state and naturally approach some randoms here and there. No rush. :)
“Hm. The people I have to chase around are probably objectively higher value. But I dunno, I’d rather hang on to the bottom rung of the cool kids group than be King of the Losers.”
Right, no, this isn’t a bad mentality or anything…girls judge you by your friends, especially at a bar where it’s like “that guy’s hot, but my friend would have to fuck his weirdo loser buddy and that’s so not going to happen” when you approach and they can just blow you off.
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